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Question by Arron: I need help in the supernatural.!!!.?
Okay, so I posted a question several weeks ago asking u guys what u thought about the spirit man i saw in my room. I got a good answer, but now I need more help. My 2 year old nephew is staying with me and has enjoyed living with me for a month now, until the other night when he went upto my room. There is me, my dad, my dads girlfriend and her daughter and her husband staying with us (I know,lots of people) and then there is my 2 nephews, 2 yrs and 1 yr. Anyway, wewere all downstairs in the livingroom and the house is 3 stories tall and as we were watching TV my 2 year oldnephew wandered upstairswithout us noticing. he must of been up there for 5 minutes until we realized. I was sent up to get him but before I could get up he ran into the room crying and shouting “MAN!!! MAN!!!” He was holding his armand when his mum looked there was a wierd shaped bruise. Sure, he could have walked into something, but he was shouting man over and over again and I need to know, can ghosts physically hurt people?!?!?!

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Answer by Sasha
Do dragons hurt people? Do werewolves or vampires?

NO BECAUSE THEY DO NOT EXIST.

Nor do ghosts, sorry.

It can be comforting to think that people are floating about looking after you. Me personally, I think that is the biggest waste of dying. What would be the point of dying if we just floated back to keep an eye on this place? Or to put bruises on little boys? Good Grief.

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Question by dogluva: Help getting over something that means so much to you.?
I have been dancing for about a year and my dad was so nice in driving me an hour (both ways) for that time. I really appreciated it.

It was always hard. Once a month my dad would have a meeting on the same day as my dance lesson. My mom would occasionally take me on those days. It was always a hassle for them because they both worked and had to take off to take me there. They really have told me that they can’t just take off from work and leave anymore.

Anyway, I used to get so behind and would go sometimes several months without a lesson. I would spend the entire time trying to get caught up, and the ADCRG wouldn’t understand why I didn’t understand what was going on because she only could come to class once a month (she is ADCRG leader of several McTeggart schools). Communication was never good. The school would send us tons of emails that got forwarded to all the parents. My parents couldn’t keep up with them all and neither could I. at least 4 times we drove all the way there and found that it wasn’t going on that day. It was a pain.

I only have been to one feis and I loved it. I did very well for my first time. I placed in all of my dances but only advanced in one dance because of the lack of participants. (I was 14 and about to be 15)

But now it has been months since I’ve last been to Mcteggart. My dad avoids talking about irish dance these days and tries to explain to me that its so hard taking me (driving 2 hours for 1 hour of dancing on dangerous roads). I would drive myself when I am able but my father and my mother have both said that its not safe. I have to agree.. there are many white crosses alongside those roads. I understand.. it was a huge undertaking.

I understand it. I really do. It really was the only thing I could do that was a social activity because my town is small and limited and there are really no activities that you can participate in if you don’t start young. Its simply to awkward and there are literally no beginner levels for my age group for anything. And the worst part – NO irish dance classes. It was the only social, excersize activity that I could do. I was never good at any other dancing (I guess I can’t work both feet AND arms at the same time.. to much coordination involved ). I do art, but obviously thats not going to keep me in shape. And its really hard to excersize on my own with school.

Emotionally I am not okay with quiting ID. I felt so drawn to it 4 years ago when my Aunt was “Irish Man” of the year and I first saw them in the San Antonio parade. I went to the parade 3 times. Each time I renewed my love and desire to participate in ID. Each time I tried to find schools that were near my town. Finally I got to attend summer camp with the Irish Dance school in SA with the school that my aunt was affiliated with. I loved it I found. But SA was 3 hours from my home. So I had to go to a school that was an hour away, even though I always wanted to be at the SA school. I loved the dancing classes while they lasted. It was like my escape. (sooo corny, I know). I try to tell myself its time to quite. I try to tell myself that it is too much of a burden and I’m going nowhere with it. But I can’t get over it. Its pathetic. I can’t move on. Every time I hear one of my irish dancing songs on my ipod, I think of it and I wish I was still dancing. Its terrible.

I don’t know how to move on even if that is whats best for me. I know you think I sound like a freak. I just have excepted the fact that my parents can’t take me there anymore. I’m not going to push it anymore. I’m really crying as I write this. I’m an emotional unhappy camper.

I’m sorry to be such a downer on this board. I guess I just need some advice
I am struggling to replace ID with something as good as it is. But its really hard in this extremely limited, close-minded town. All the sports I feel I am too old to participate in because everyone has been playing for years and I moved here when I was 6 but at the time never had interest in the sports. My parents signed me up for things when I was younger.. I made it to middle school.. tried out for teams and never made it. I was criticized for being too thin and not muscular. I gave up then.

Do you have any advice? I’m really sorry for this long thread post. I’m just venting right now. I would really appreciate any life coaching lol and any opinions.

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Answer by John
Too long a question to answer, but try volunteering wherever there are social services. Anything from crochet to brewing beer at home, or perhaps baking, will work.

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Question by nora: Can someone help interpret my dream?
Dream a few nights ago: Bear attacks my friend’s dobermann dog. In a lounge with friends on a big bed and having dinner watching a movie. Feel sexual tension with friend to my right.
Dream last night: Part one, it’s snowing outside and it’s really cold and my grandparents and dad and cousin/friend have to put on a bunch of clothes (i focused on many socks) to run away into the wilderness because brown or black bears are coming to kill us. Everyone is calm and smiling at me in a frustrating way; I am the only one freaking out. We have to write journals about the events, kind of like suicide letters, but no one will give me paper. I am panicking.
Wake up in real life at 5 am, eyes crusty from crying.
Fall back asleep, part 2: we’re on a ship that we can look at through a magnefying glass and then zoom into a room and be in it. ROom full of giants that are angry and dangerous, along with other weird creatures. I tame them though throughout my dream, and in the process i fall in love with another man on ship. ship is in shape of a book. we are at war though, and get bombed throughout. at the end when i tame the giants and creatures in far away room on ship, they are not grateful, and one is especially mean like Grumpy from snow white.
Then i am separated from man i fell in love with, and tell him i will cry for him forever. then i die, my head is cut off. Then i turn into daughter of the woman i see die. Man “i” fell in love with becomes my father and it all turns into a fairy tale my mother is telling me. But the character she talks about is her. Then i am reunited over a radio show with father (some proof i have is a necklace and charms that match with his) and again i wake up crying. Then i am in a clothing store trying to pick out cheap clothes, but i have no money and everything is expensive. i ask person that works there for sales and she says i am too early. I am wearing clothes from the same store though, and i accidentally left the price tags on them. I am concerned of being caught for shoplifting. People i am shopping with is 2 ditzy girls and a personal trainer i met a month ago at a gym. She is telling me of a sale in september and i wanna go but she doesn’t invite me, so i don’t say anything.
what does this mean!?

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Answer by Chalie2na
it means you should stop eating pizza after nine o’clock

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Question by : Please Help? Beauty Body Looks?
Okay I have a really cute face & I don’t just say that because I’m stuck up or anything I probably have the lowest self esteem in the world lol. The reason why I say I have a cute face is because my little sisters a really adorable & we would look like triplets if we were the same age. Lol just joking. … But yxa I hear it a lot! I just know when I was 12 my body was perfect excluding my saggy boobs & that I didn’t have much clothing. No that I’m 20 I had a child my stomach is filled with stretch marks from the middle of my stomach down to the top of my vagina. I had the most ugliest buttocks in the world I wouldn’t showed someone if the paid me a million bucks. The reason why I say it’s ugly it’s because it has no shape it’s really small so you’d think it’ll be fit. Btw I’m 5′2 weigh 135pounds bust size 36C 23 33 feet size 7 1/2 or 8. Okay I have the skin completion as a “Trinidad, a dark Brazilian” hmm it’s honey mustard not too dark able to tan. I have a small some what point to my nose. No check bones I have cheeks lol. Dark black curly shoulder length hair dark brown eyes. Long eye lashes thick eye brows. Full lips. So I’m really thinking right now you’d be impress to see me with my description. Nope it’s something weird about it. I always wanted to be the same weight as I was when I was 12 which was 135 pounds which I am now. & I don’t look the same but yet I did not get fit & loose the weight I just lost the weight eating not eating much but a lot of grapes & oranges. I was 181 pounds I finally got to 135 but I’m not sexy!! Okay so now I know I have to work out. But I see these not to be rude or anything like that. I see these transsexuals that have me. As in they look more lady like than I do. & that hurts me inside because it’s like “Damn I’m born female but they make me look like a man”. Like seriously I have the weirdest walk in the world my toes touch & my knees do aswell it’s weird! I hate being in public because of that. I rather sit in a car all day because they can only see my face lol! But then again I’m good with make up but don’t just know what everything is or what’s for what … I don’t do much with my hair because I don’t know what to do with it. I always ask a hair dresser what would they decide & they don’t say anything. I haven’t tried any colors in my hair either. “I want to look like a Cali girl. I want to look flawless beautiful like a Goddess”**iknow I have the potential I just don’t know where to start or what to do** I want to do surgery on my stomach to get rid of the stretch marks. I also want to do a lift on my breast to get them “perfect” looking. I also want to be at lest 5′5 somewhere up there. But that’s not enough what should I do?? Oooh I’m interested in M.A.C cosmetics,lush, forever21, bebe, Victoria Secret etc. Tell me more!!!!!! MakeMeOVER -Rhabeca X0X0

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Answer by Erica fortes soli superant
uuhhh yeah. Are you by chance taking any prescription medication for schizophrenia or some other dissociative disorder?

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Question by : Please help Beauty Body Loooks?
Okay I have a really cute face & I don’t just say that because I’m stuck up or anything I probably have the lowest self esteem in the world lol. The reason why I say I have a cute face is because my little sisters a really adorable & we would look like triplets if we were the same age. Lol just joking. … But yxa I hear it a lot! I just know when I was 12 my body was perfect excluding my saggy boobs & that I didn’t have much clothing. No that I’m 20 I had a child my stomach is filled with stretch marks from the middle of my stomach down to the top of my vagina. I had the most ugliest buttocks in the world I wouldn’t showed someone if the paid me a million bucks. The reason why I say it’s ugly it’s because it has no shape it’s really small so you’d think it’ll be fit. Btw I’m 5′2 weigh 135pounds bust size 36C 23 33 feet size 7 1/2 or 8. Okay I have the skin completion as a “Trinidad, a dark Brazilian” hmm it’s honey mustard not too dark able to tan. I have a small some what point to my nose. No check bones I have cheeks lol. Dark black curly shoulder length hair dark brown eyes. Long eye lashes thick eye brows. Full lips. So I’m really thinking right now you’d be impress to see me with my description. Nope it’s something weird about it. I always wanted to be the same weight as I was when I was 12 which was 135 pounds which I am now. & I don’t look the same but yet I did not get fit & loose the weight I just lost the weight eating not eating much but a lot of grapes & oranges. I was 181 pounds I finally got to 135 but I’m not sexy!! Okay so now I know I have to work out. But I see these not to be rude or anything like that. I see these transsexuals that have me. As in they look more lady like than I do. & that hurts me inside because it’s like “Damn I’m born female but they make me look like a man”. Like seriously I have the weirdest walk in the world my toes touch & my knees do aswell it’s weird! I hate being in public because of that. I rather sit in a car all day because they can only see my face lol! But then again I’m good with make up but don’t just know what everything is or what’s for what … I don’t do much with my hair because I don’t know what to do with it. I always ask a hair dresser what would they decide & they don’t say anything. I haven’t tried any colors in my hair either. “I want to look like a Cali girl. I want to look flawless beautiful like a Goddess”**iknow I have the potential I just don’t know where to start or what to do** I want to do surgery on my stomach to get rid of the stretch marks. I also want to do a lift on my breast to get them “perfect” looking. I also want to be at lest 5′5 somewhere up there. But that’s not enough what should I do?? Oooh I’m interested in M.A.C cosmetics,lush, forever21, bebe, Victoria Secret etc. Tell me more!!!!!! MakeMeOVER -Rhabeca X0X0

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Answer by Sarah M
i hope you get what you’re aiming for, but seriously you got to start loving yourself.

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Question by I ♥ you!: please help!! URGENT!! ugh BOY problems!!?
ok so there is this guy… and we have known each other since we were babies. and have been really good friends… and he is a year older.
well on the last day of school i was standing there talking to two of my guy friends and he like went out of his way to come and talk to me.. and when we were all standing there talking i was messing with one of my guy friends phones trying to like put my number in or something and one of his friends came up and said
” I wouldn’t be flirting with other guys” (talking to me)
” oh haha and why is that”
” cause seth(guys name) can be a pretty jealous man”
(luckily) my phone started ringing
and seth turned red and walked off while i was on the phone

and i saw him a few times during the summer but we didn’t have time to talk..

and then this saturday our school had this thing called the “kick off supper” and it is just like an “introduction” into fall sports(volleyball,and football) and they introduce all the players and do an auction and all that. anyways everyone that was getting introduced was kept in a hallway until it was time for us to go in the main gym.. and i was talking to a new kid that was going to be in my grade… and he goes “haha do you know that guy” and nods his head in seth’s direction. and i look back and he is just sitting there staring at me… and it was just like a hateful stare…so i exchanged numbers with the new kid(his idea)

and then i went over to where seth was.. and said hi and all that and nothing was awkward.

then we finally got to go to the main gym and get announced. and we went to sit on the floor and i was going to sit beside my best friend but set slid in and took her place and started talking to me.. well then we both and got announced. well then the new kid sat beside me. and started talking to me and the convo went like this
“haha wow i’m nervous”(him)
” lol why” me
” well i don’t want to seem stalkerish”
“haha no you won’t”
then seth scoffed at my other side and i shot him a dirty look. haha then he gave me the cutest puppy dog face look
and then i turned back to the new kid and he asked me
“will you go to homecoming with me??”
and i actually kind of like him so i said
” well i would love to, but let me think about it”
and he said ok and walked off
then seth was like
him–”you know all he is doing is get in your pants”
me– “excuse me!”
him– “thats just how you come off”
me– ” and how do i come off?!”
him– ” like a ****”
me– “and what is that supposed to mean!”
him– “that you flirt with a lot of guys”
me– “umm no i don’t ”
him– ” look its nothing to get bent out of shape about”
me– “whatever i’m not a ****”
him– ” not a **** in your sense”
me– “what is my sense:
him– “sleeping/making out with a lot of guys”
me– ” then what kind of **** am i,and fyi, i’m still a virgin i’m 14 dumb ass!!??”
him– ” the pretty kind” then he winked at me..
then that conversation was pretty much over lol

then that night i got a foward from his little sister that said

“he is still crazy about you but you will lose him forever if you don’t send on to 9 girls”
so i just kind of ignored it for then and got on my myspace and he im’med me like right away

so i mean does he like me or what what do you think??

oh and if it is to confusing just tell me and i will add additional details and try to explain it better, i just woke up and like wrote everything down so just please tell me what you think )

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Answer by Piggy
TL;DR

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Question by A Hopp: Can someone guide me how to get in contact with a government official with an issue joining the military? HELP?
For the last 4-5 months i have been doing research and talking to people about joining the military. I make a 100% commitment to joining a branch in the military. I went to the marines, get DQed because of a surgery taking out 10 inches of my colon in july of 2007. I go to the army, and i get DQed. I”m waiting to hear back from the navy tomorrow. I am 20 years old, 185 pounds and in athletic shape, lift weights and run five times a week. There has NEVER been a problem with my surgery since it was done. I want to “stick it to the man” because i am trying to serve my country that most people would say “i couldn’t do that man” and i’m getting screwed for standing up for my country. I just want help to get in contact with a government official of any kind and explain my situation. and don’t tell me it’s fate cause that’s bull.

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Answer by phreakamp
talk to a doctor and get him to give you papers saying that you are in good physical shape and no problems with your surgery… take that to your branch and show them and just pray for a waiver

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Question by : Seriously considering breaking up with girlfriend. (Please help)?
LONG BUT PLEASE READ AND TRY TO HELP ME, ANY ADVICE IS APPRECIATED (I Love CAPS TOO)

Hello Yahoo answers, first let me start off with the fact that I usually don’t go on here much unless in a great deal of personal stress or need some serious advice, hell ANY advice would be appreciated. With that out of the way, let me begin. First off let me try not to ramble (Too late I know) and tell the story in the least amount of words. To sum it up, I never had a girlfriend, recently acquired one who is very smart and dare I say almost “As intelligent as a man”, but is in no way shape or form a man (I checked, thoroughly). Said girlfriend doesn’t seem to care about me all that much, or at least that’s the way I feel. It seems she keeps me around just for witty banter and a few laughs, she says she likes me but as we all know, people lie.

So now I’m sitting here having not having seen her for 3 days because she’s busy with family, which I was more or less ok with and granted her those days. I recently gave her my game collection and she’s been playing that, did I mention she BAILED on going somewhere with me today just to go to her cousins where the Xbox is? (HINT HINT), I mean Ninja Gaiden is a good game, but I feel used and alone, and angry, and most of all annoyed at the fact that she apparently doesn’t care about seeing me as much as I care about seeing her. Part of my frustration is bent towards family issues just for your information, so you don’t trail off thinking I’m some crazy son of a ***** boyfriend with need issues. But lets focus on the girl, what the hell is she doing? If any of you are confused on exactly what the hell is going on, I’ll add details to assist you. If you’ve read this far then I congratulate you on a job well done, no cookies this time though, just water.
Sorry about the wrong category, it set me to this one. Again sorry for the inconvenience.
I should add the detail that we haven’t talked much or seen each other for 5 or so days, apart from a few texts that’s all I’ve got.

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Answer by im just another dumb yahoo user
hey bud wrong categoery

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Question by : i had the oddest dream with Jesus in it.. help!?
THIS IS LONG!
for the past month or so, i’ve been having really weird evil dreams.
i’ve had dreams about..

people trying to kill me with nuclear substances.
people trying to kill me,
people choking me.
people trying to rape me..

in my dream last night, i dreamed about about a “blue man” who’s skin was blue and he wore blue spandex shorts with a yellow line around them.
now this “blue man” would stand outside in my yard, watch me through the windows, and hide in my gardens and peek at me. i wouldn’t dare go outside, because if i did. my body would feel like it was being transformed. and the dream would go into some sort of “other world”. (i only went out once then popped back into the house. and it was night).
so then the blue man, was sitting on my doorstep, and i was dragged outside somehow.
then i look up, the sky is brownish orange, and i see JESUS! i call his name like “IT’S JESUS!” “jesus, jesus, jesus..”
and he started to get closer, and closer. then he picked me up and i woke up. but there was a bean shape thing by his feet when he was standing in the sky.
ANYWAY.
there was another dream when a frog like creature was choking me, and i could only inhale. literally. and i was moving my body. in that dream the setting was a white room, and a LONG staircase, that went down.
in all of these dreams i could never see a face, not Jesus’s, the blue man, or the workers at the nuclear plant. but in the frog dream, the animal has yellowish eyes. like a Dijon mustard.

could you please just help to know what’s going on.
i’m tired of losing sleep over this.
i really thank all of you for answering this question.

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Answer by Jesus ♥ Satan
You have some kinky wet dreams.

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Question by Ashley R: Please Help?
I told my husband today that I would like to join the ARMY. Before I met him I was going to join while in school. I do have back problems however my recruiter told me that all I had to do was prove to the medical specialist that I can do anything anyone in the ARMY can and I believe I can do because I was in track for 2 years and I was also in shape doing sit up, push up, running, Jogging, and other exsercieses to stay in shape. I did not sign. But for some reason my husband is stopping me from going into the ARMY to be a Medic. I know everything about it and I really want to do it. But he keeps putting me down and telling me that I cant join and making all kinds of excuses for me not to join. But as a recall a week ago he came home and told me his “friends at work” called me lazy and told him since I did not have a job they would have booted me to the curb. I met my husband online and all my family lives in NY as well as I also did. I am a nurse in NYS already but he refuses to get me
My license down here. I seriously have tried everything. I have even gone as far as telling him that I am going back to NY because there is nothing for me down here. I have no clue on what to do to make him happy. What can I do? I have tried everything.
I have a 3 year old son..

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Answer by Tink
If the ARMY is your call, do so, but if its just because you want to get away from other things, then don’t. He is trying to make you stay and I don’t think you should care what his friends think of you, as long as you are happy with your life.. If I were you, I would seek for a person who I can talk to and arrange my ideas, like a psychologist or a counselor, just to have a second opinion. Now think about your little one, would you take him to NY?? or if you do join the Army, would you leave him with your husband? just think about it…

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